Zero Guilt Self-Care for Moms: 7 ways to rethink your needs

Zero Guilt Self-Care for Moms: 7 ways to rethink your needs

Having needs is not being needy. Moms deserve some RnR too!
February 14, 2022 — Soumya John
Babyproofing your house: A handy checklist

Babyproofing your house: A handy checklist

It’s incredible how quickly your little one begins to crawl and move about, isn’t it? While each milestone is a mark of celebration, it also adds a list of concerns...
September 07, 2020 — Gowri Kishore
How I am answering questions from my child on the Corona Virus!

How I am answering questions from my child on the Corona Virus!

With the Corona virus epidemic gripping the entire world, these are confusing and scary times for all of us. As many of us are overwhelmed and anxious, homes are rife with conversations about the pandemic and its far-reaching effects – social, psychological, financial and political and out little sponges are absorbing it all in. Psychologists and children’s organisations have warned that children could be vulnerable to feelings of stress, anxiety and sadness and respond in different ways such as - being more clingy, anxious, withdrawn and aloof, angry, agitated, with a recurrence/ increased instances of bedwetting etc.
March 31, 2020 — Suchismita Pai
Sleep training your baby: Pro tips from sleep expert Kerry Bajaj

Sleep training your baby: Pro tips from sleep expert Kerry Bajaj

Struggling to set a sleep routine for your baby? Waking up tired and cranky (you and your baby)? Read this!
March 10, 2020 — Gowri Kishore
Parenting guilt. Why parents feel guilty about little things and stress out.

Parenting guilt. Why parents feel guilty about little things and stress out.

Guilt makes us parent from a place of insecurity, from a place of fear and this sometimes colours the decisions we take or the way we behave. It also adds to the stress of parenting and a stressed parent adds to the stress of the child. In fact all the negative emotions we feel reflect in our parenting and will have an impact on our child.  It is not easy but looking at the triggers and working on them will help.
February 03, 2020 — Suchismita Pai
Single parenting! Same and different!

Single parenting! Same and different!

How are families different…

Structure - Some families are multi-generational, while others just have a parent and child. Some might have all adults leaving home for work every day; others may have stay at home or work from home adults.

Style – Tough love, consensus, free-range or any other kind of parenting – we all have our own ways of dealing with parenting issues though we all want our kids to be happy, healthy adults.

December 02, 2019 — Shumee Toys
Punctuating Love With Discipline

Punctuating Love With Discipline

Being a parent does require you to play Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde multiple times a day but make sure you always remain calm and positively discipline your child. Being your child’s friend is good, but raising them to be well-adjusted, disciplined beings is much more important. We hope these tips help you punctuate love with discipline.
September 23, 2019 — Rati Girish
Home schooling - Is it the right choice for your child? How to know.

Home schooling - Is it the right choice for your child? How to know.

What is homeschooling?

Homeschooling/ Unschooling / Open schooling are all terms on the same continuum that do not require the child to go to a school. Homeschooled children are mostly at home, learning from their parents or in some cases tutors, at their own pace. Some may have a set syllabus, a set time for studies, and a routine that mimics a regular day at school for a child. The only difference may be the lack of a school building and commute. Other parents may opt for a looser style with no set curriculum but base it on how the child evolves and expresses interest. Some may be reading stories and watching videos, while others just get the textbooks of a particular level and teach from that. 

Unschooling also connotes a free atmosphere where there is often no pressure to get to any particular milestone at a set time. Parents provide exposure, planned and unplanned, and let the child learns from it. They answer questions and offer choices.


With open schooling, kids can take exams and get more regular grading through a system of open schools that require no attendance at any school. The reading writing and arithmetic have to be at a particular level, and you can get a certificate to that effect when you take a standard test.

August 12, 2019 — Shumee Toys
How can you balance play time and studies at the start of the school year

How can you balance play time and studies at the start of the school year

All work and no play makes a child dull...

Work-life balance is something that all of us try and achieve. Most of us do balance work, time with family, friends, alone time etc. to be successful. For a child, study/ play balance is like work-life balance. If they do not get time to play, they cannot grow to their full potential. However, studying and learning through some formal means is also essential. Balancing both so that you do not lag behind at school and get overwhelmed eventually is important.

A new school year can be fun and exciting as it's a chance to explore something that the child has not done before; be it new subjects, friends, teachers, or more. Make it better for your child by ensuring they have a great play-work balance and watch them thrive. Happy new school year!
July 08, 2019 — Shumee Toys
What we learn from mothers! A mother's day special.

What we learn from mothers! A mother's day special.

Mothers have kept us sane with their sage advice. And some of the lovely thoughts that we heard, tell us how they teach us to live life to the fullest, be silly, enjoy every moment that comes our way. From the very practical ‘never travel without your bathing suit’, to the wise  ‘you don't have to be party to every argument you're invited to’, or ‘do something you enjoy as you have to be at it 8 hours a day’; there were many learnings passed on from mom to other moms. Sometimes they taught them by example, sometimes by letting them make their own mistakes and at times with a touch of sternness.
May 08, 2019 — Shumee Toys
Sleepy Time rituals! How to get better zzzzzs for your children and sleep well yourself!

Sleepy Time rituals! How to get better zzzzzs for your children and sleep well yourself!

You should make your own bedtime rituals for every child based on what their interests are! Some kids might get soothed and calm with lullabies while others may prefer to hear a story; little ones may need to be carried a little while some may need a warm drink. Even dinner time with family can be a signal to slow down and get ready for sleep.
April 30, 2019 — Shumee Toys
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Balance for better! Womenspeak on Women's day.

As we celebrate the EveryWomen on the International Women’s day, we take a peek at what a few of them do every day to be themselves and how they shape generations.

Sharing your story is not easy in these times of glossy, sanitized versions of lives everywhere we can see. Life is not about the highlight reel but about what happens behind the scenes. We at shumee wish every woman balance for better every day! Every day is Women's day at shumee!  

March 11, 2019 — Shumee Toys